Relationship Check-Ins With Your Teen
Relationship check-ins can be as easy as four questions, and lead to increased trust.
Why This Works
It’s predictable (so it feels safe)
It’s mutual (so it’s not a power play)
It builds communication skills teens actually need in relationships
It makes hard conversations easier before they’re urgent
You’re not asking for details.
You’re building trust.
Get the Stress Out of Your Body
Much of what teens see online is heavily edited—or not real at all. Between beauty filters, subtle edits, and AI-generated faces and bodies, it’s easy to compare themselves to impossible standards.
Teach teens to notice how content affects them. Ask them to check:
- Is this content edited or filtered?
- Is this person being paid to look like this?
- How does this make me feel?
- Does this account add something good to my day?
Influencers & Body Image
Much of what teens see online is heavily edited—or not real at all. Between beauty filters, subtle edits, and AI-generated faces and bodies, it’s easy to compare themselves to impossible standards.
Teach teens to notice how content affects them. Ask them to check:
- Is this content edited or filtered?
- Is this person being paid to look like this?
- How does this make me feel?
- Does this account add something good to my day?
How Do I Talk To My Teen About Online Flirting?
Respectful flirting looks like:
The other person responds at a similar pace
No pressure or guilt-tripping
Compliments feel kind, not objectifying
The person stops when asked
How Do I Talk to My Teen About Porn?
Talking about porn can make even the most confident parent freeze up. You might worry about saying the wrong thing, or feel unsure what’s “normal.” The truth is, most teens will come across pornography online long before they’re emotionally ready for it—and your calm, caring presence matters more than any perfect script.
You don’t need to have all the answers. You just need to stay curious, grounded, and open to hearing what your teen already knows. Here are seven ways to start that conversation with care.
Online Safety for Teens
5. Model Digital Respect
Your actions speak louder than any rule. Avoid sharing private stories about your teen or venting about others online. Show them how respect and privacy go hand in hand.
How Do I Talk To My Teen About Sexting?
Focus on values, not shame
Your teen is learning what feels right and what doesn’t. Instead of focusing only on rules, talk about respect, trust, and how we show care for others online and offline.